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“I'm not going to hide my enthusiasm today. Wow, Paul Coughlin! He's amazing. I'm honored to be speaking with him today. Paul has a prophetic message for men. I'm a big fan. He talks about the martial spirit, about the 'thumos' of men, about moving men from being nice to dangerous and good in the image of Jesus Christ. You have to hear this guy.”

Kenny Luck
——— Kenny Luck ———
Men's Pastor | Saddleback Church, California
Founder and President of Every Man Ministries

Paul provides five life-changing conferences:

Men Taking Hills: Unleashing Courageous & Loving Faith In a Timid and
Loveless World.

This one-day to two-day event shows men the hidden power of the male soul, home of thumos--the source of animation, spiritedness, courage, boldness, righteousness and more. Provocative, humorous, and insightful, this conference is ideal for church men, the un-churched and de-churched. Based upon the upcoming book, Unleashing Courageous Faith.

Men Behaving 'Badly': Stop Being Nice & Start Being Good.
A one-day to two-day event, ideal for men's retreats and breakfasts, where men
learn to discard fake niceness and embrace genuine goodness, and become more faithful, courageous, loving and protective. Based upon the best-selling book, No More Christian Nice Guy.

Cupid, Couples (and Singles): How To Be Married AND Engaged.
A one- day conference for couples where honesty, integrity, respect and
intimacy replace common problems, such as pervasive passivity, that
make us married but not engaged. Also ideal for singles, who some day
will be married and who are one of the most disenfranchised groups in
church today. See Paul's book, Marrried but not Engaged.

The Parent Trap: Raising Secure & Assertive Kids in a Tough World.
Too many Christian parents are raising spiritual veal: children who are weak and compliant instead of bold, truthful and assertive, the true character of Jesus. Learn about the common and well-intentioned traps that create timid children--the number one target of bullies--and solutions to creating children with integrity instead. Be sure to read Paul's book, No More Jellyfish, Chicken's or Wimps.

The Protectors Summit: Spreading God's Love & Justice Into the Theater
of Bullying.

Paul helps bring God's love, mercy and justice to the world of adolescent bullying through these life-changing conferences based upon his six-lesson Protectors curriculum. Ideal for Sunday Schools, private schools, and even public schools when Paul provides a modified version of his unique and liberating message. For more information, visit The Protectors website.


Says Paul, "At every men's conference I talk with men who are either divorced or separated due to the Christian Nice Guy problem. Let me help your men understand and overcome this frustrated problem with a message that no one else is providing."

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