——— Dr. James Dobson ———

Host | Focus on the Family radio broadcast

“You did an outstanding job expounding on the unique challenges today’s Christian men face as they strive to be godly husbands, and I’m confident our listeners will benefit from your insightful perspective on marriage.”

——— Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D. ———

“Paul is challenging our thinkingon what it means
to be God’s man in the twenty-first century.
This book is his excellent answer.”

——— Pastor Greg Pechacek ———

Lake City Church

“I thank God for the things He did in so many of our lives through you. Numerous men have already shared with me
how God has dramatically ministered to them
through your message.”

——— Library Journal ———

Regarding the book - Married But Not Engaged

“Coughlin (No More Christian Nice Guy) and his wife, Sandy, have put together this empathetic guide to help women understand the inner lives of their emotionally absent men and facilitate change...While the authors use biblical texts to illustrate their message, it is based on sound psychology and therapeutic techniques. The writing is clear and not condescending; the information offered will help any married couple dealing with passive aggression and rigidity, regardless of religious affiliation. Recommended for all libraries.”

——— Dr. Paul Coleman ———

Author of The Complete Idiot's Guide to Intimacy | www.bestintimacy.com

“Married...But Not Engaged informs us with laser-beam accuracy why many nice guys detach from their marriage and what loving wives can do about it. Read this book and discover how to be engaged and married at the same time!.”

——— Jim Burns ———

President, HomeWord

Paul’s work “is honest, helpful, practical, challenging as well as life-changing. Your investment will make a positive difference in your marriage.”

——— Rich Gerberding ———

Men’s Coach | The Grove Church, Peoria IL

“Paul’s visit to The Grove blessed all ages and both genders. The Christian Nice Guy problem hurts the whole church and our society. Both our men and women responded to Paul’s message to put the ‘good’ ahead of ‘nice’ in their marriages and other priorities. If Paul just speaks to your men, you’re wasting half (or more) of the potential of his message.”