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Paul has written numerous articles that help people understand and overcome the unique "nice guy" problem. Here are a few of the more popular ones.

New Male Spirit

Welcome to my inaugural blog on Crosswalk, where I’ve been asked to write about male spirituality. I’m the author of No More Christian Nice Guy, which is considered provocative by some and life-changing by others. I’m also the co-author, along with my wife, of Married But Not Engaged, which helps Christian Nice Guy marriages overcome the marital strife that takes place when husbands are nice, not good. You can learn more about the Christian Nice Guy problem by visiting www.christianniceguy.com and www.paulcoughlin.net.

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No More Christian Nice Guy

Author Paul Coughlin broke out of a passive lifestyle and wants to help the men in your life do the same. — by Camerin Courtney

Paul Coughlin, author, Christian radio talk-show host, and married father of three, describes himself as a "former Christian nice guy." Raised in an abusive home and brought up with a warped, wimpy picture of Jesus, Paul, 39, looked around at his life six years ago and realized he was a frustrated man. "When I brought the fear-based passivity of my youth, combined with the false ideal of Mild Jesus into my marriage, fireworks exploded," Paul explains.

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The Unsafe Life

In recent years, some strong voices have been beckoning Christian men to come out of their defeated conditions, move past their passivity and go outside of their comfort zones in living a 110 percent for God. Find out why such a life is not only scriptural, but also essential to a man's well-being.

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No More Mr. Nice Guy

— by Paul T. Coughlin

Does the thought of being bold in life give you the cold sweats? This needs to change if you want the kind of life that really counts.

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Q&A With "No More Christian Nice Guy" Author Paul Coughlin

— Staff | Christianbook.com

Author and "recovering nice guy" Paul Coughlin points the way for all men who yearn to live a life of boldness and conviction – like Jesus – as he discusses his latest book, "No More Christian Nice Guy."

Christianbook.com: What’s wrong with being nice?

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