——— Jeff ———

Boston, MA

“Your presentation about the Christian Nice Guy problem and how to overcome it changed my life. Thank you for your courage and honesty.”

——— Nathan ———

Nashville, TN

“Paul is challenging our thinkingon what it means
to be God’s man in the twenty-first century.
This book is his excellent answer.”

——— Jered ———

Sheffield, England

“Your presentation changed my faith like no other men’s conference I’ve attended. I’m no longer think that God is out to get me. I know now that I can bring my real problems to God.”

——— Brian Doyle ———

National Director | Iron Sharpens Iron Men’s Conferences

“Most men believe that being nice and agreeable is honoring to God and is the way to a woman’s heart. Paul Coughlin sets them straight. In a transparent style mixed with humor, Paul helps men understand how God has wired us to be engaged and involved. I have stopped trying to keep track of the men who claim that God has used his seminars to radically change their lives and relationships.”

——— Dr. James Dobson ———

Host | Focus on the Family radio broadcast

“You did an outstanding job expounding on the unique challenges today’s Christian men face as they strive to be godly husbands, and I’m confident our listeners will benefit from your insightful perspective on marriage.”

——— Dave Murrow ———

Author of Why Men Hate Going to Church

“John Eldredge gave men permission to be ‘wild at heart.’ Paul Coughlin shows us how to do it. This book is a road map to a larger life.”

——— Focus on the Family ———

New Zealand

“Paul’s writing are keys to unlocking and
freeing us from the ‘Jellyfish for Jesus’ mentality that is binding up so many Christian men and their families.”

——— Dr. Laura Schlessinger ———

“No More Christian Nice guy is a fabulous book. It’s so clever, it will jumpstart you guys--Christian or not.”

——— Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D. ———

“Paul is challenging our thinkingon what it means
to be God’s man in the twenty-first century.
This book is his excellent answer.”

——— Pastor Greg Pechacek ———

Lake City Church

“I thank God for the things He did in so many of our lives through you. Numerous men have already shared with me
how God has dramatically ministered to them
through your message.”

——— Mark Doebler ———

Head Pastor | The Grove Church, Peoria, Ill

“To Pastors and Men’s Ministry Leaders Everywhere: I would like to commend to you the speaking services of Paul Coughlin. We are in a battle for the hearts and souls of men, and like most warfare, it’s not pretty. It seems we have lost our way in the “fog of war.” When an army finds itself in such a place, it needs a clarion call, it needs a bold and clear-minded leader to help re-focus and re-direct.

The army of God is in that place, and Paul Coughlin is such a man. I encourage you to gather your troops (men and women alike) and let Paul clarify the situation. Along with a clear picture, your troops will walk away with some concrete strategies to reclaim ground that has been lost to the enemy. We have all been affected by it - men, women, children, families, society, everyone. But we can fight back to gain what was lost, and Paul can help you in that fight.”

——— Mark Preston ———

Pastor | Sure Hope Church, Wales

“Paul Coughlin skillfully exposes a courage-shaped hole in the hearts of many Christian men and en-courages us instead to live as valiant noble Christ-followers. Every Christian man should listen to Paul’s life-changing message.”

——— Tom Cheshire ———

President and co-founder of Business Men In Christ | Springfield, IL

“Paul Coughlin has a message from God for men! Paul is the perfect messenger because he is real, honest and God has brought him through life to tell his story of manhood in the 21st century. If you want a man who can walk the talk, you want to meet Paul Coughlin. Paul’s message will change your life, your families life, and all those you touch.”

——— Nate Larkin ———

Author of “Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood”

“Paul peels away the veneer of the false life so many Christian Nice Guys have been forced to cultivate. It’s a veneer that tends to crack at inconvenient times anyway, often with disastrous results. Listen to Paul and save yourself a mountain of grief.”